A Pinky Promise to yourself: 5 intentions worth holding onto

In a world that moves fast, we often show up for others before we show up for ourselves. At Pinky Promises, we believe in turning that around, starting with something small but powerful: a pinky promise to yourself.

Making a promise to yourself is an act of love, self-trust, and strength. It’s a reminder you carry with you each day. And when it’s sealed with jewellery, it becomes something you can return to whenever you need it most.

Here are five meaningful pinky promises to make to yourself, or to rewrite in your own words.

1. I promise to be kind to myself

No more harsh self-talk. No more measuring your worth against others. This promise is about treating yourself with the same patience,
grace, and softness that you so easily give to others.

2. I promise to protect my peace

Your time, energy, and emotional space are valuable. Whether it’s setting boundaries, saying no, or walking away from what drains you. This promise is your permission to protect what keeps you grounded.

3. I promise to believe in myself

Even when it's hard. Even when no one else sees it yet. This is a vow to trust your own potential and to take up space, unapologetically.

4. I promise to grow at my own pace

Life is not a race. This promise is about embracing your own timeline, honouring the slow seasons, and celebrating progress. No matter how small.

5. I promise to show up for myself

To keep choosing yourself, even on the hard days. To take the break. To start the dream. To keep going. This one is about remembering: you are worth the effort.

A daily reminder, made wearable

Our Promise to Self pieces are designed to carry your intention with you, in a way that feels personal and strong. Whether it’s your first promise or your next one, may it remind you of what truly matters.

Because the most powerful promises are the ones we make to ourselves.